nigger or nigg"a"?

honestly? i generally think that the word "nigger" is degrading enough. but for african americans to put a twist to it (nigga) and turn it into an acronym is jst RIDCULOUS! i mean, dont get me wrong ; jst recently i had to kinda go "cold turkey", if you will, and way myself from the habit of saying it. once you feel comfortable with placing that word in your vocabulary its difficult to stop. trust me, i've been thru it. now, for the 2008 grammy awards, the infamous couple who i absolutely admire (*) promoted his new album by wearing an interesting outfit. no tux & dress.... whats that about? oh noo! would that have been too conservative? hmp..... go figure.
okay so kelis looks ravishing as always & nas looks jst about as SCRUPTOUS as usual but i mean, their outfits? come on now. granted, they wore it well but for me that was one of the most embarrassing days of my life. ths isnt an outfit you'd wear to church, or to school, or DEFINITELY not to the million man march (lol) so why would you wear it to the damn grammy awards?! are you serious! its not much that i have to say because a very interesting comedian said it for me "nigga? N:never I:ignorant G:getting G:goals A:accomplished. is that not thee most dumbest thing you've heard??! thats like walking in the house & seeing a pile of shit on the floor thn putting whipped cream around it and candles & singing "happppy birthday to yoooouuu!" (lmfao - nuff said. LITERALLY)